South African man raped by 3 women says he can't forgive them, speaks about his trauma (watch)

The video is quite confusing. The 3 girls seemed to be forcing themselves on the guy...with one trying to get him aroused so the other one can mount him. You can see the other lady holding his hands down. What I don't understand is why he was allowing it to happen. He should be strong enough to get them off him or maybe he was drugged and made weak? Disgusting women. Watch the video after the cut and tell us what you think..

The man said he feared going to the police because he thought they would not take him seriously.
“When I told them what happened they were shocked. The three women were arrested the same day I reported the matter.”
The alleged rapists were people he knew and grew up with in the area, he said. “I’m very angry,” he said of the assault.One of the families of the alleged rapists went to the man’s home to try to make amends, he said.
“My brothers and sisters were not having any of it,” he said. He was looking forward to the trial. “People like that should not be part of society.”

What made it more difficult to move on was that the video was on social media and people had come to ask him what happened. “It is something I never thought would happen to me. There is not much I can do but try to move on.”

According to Reese Mann, executive director of the South African Male Survivors of S3xual Abuse (Samssa), one out of six males before the age of 18 were s3xually abused.
Mann said 19.3% of all s3xual violations reported to police involved male victims.

“Male victims of s3xual abuse are less likely than their female counterparts to report incidents of s3xual abuse, because police and the judiciary don’t take it seriously,” Mann said.
Mann said a widely held myth was that if males got an erection and/or, ejaculated during the s3xual abuse, they must have enjoyed it. “A man being raped can still get an erection because it is in the physiological make-up of males that if they are caressed long enough they end up getting an erection,” said Mann.

He said there was also the myth that men should be capable of protecting themselves against s3xual abuse. “There are three stages that any victim of s3xual abuse goes through, and they are called the three Fs.“They can fight back, they can flee or they are just overcome by fear and the force exerted by the perpetrator, in which case they just freeze,” said Mann.

Police spokesman Lieutenant-Colonel Thulani Zwane confirmed the incident and said the women had appeared in the Hluhluwe Magistrate’s Court last Thursday and were expected to appear again on Tuesday for a bail application.

He said they were being held in custody.

Source - http://www.iol.co.za/